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For some people who know me for years, they must acknowledge that I have a overthinking habit. Even for the smallest event.

My overthinking habit led me to sleepless night, sick, headache, upset stomach, acne.
My overthinking habit has been strike me since last year.
The most reason is I try to find the answer, the solution, even scheming some accident with "what if..."
Sometimes I feel normal, until the effect is really bad for myself.

Two days ago, my phone suddenly dead, and I'm panic out.
But, amazingly, I didn't overthink much. I got panic for a moment, but I can sleep well that night.
Maybe because I give suggestion to my mind "everything will be okay", "you still in warranty period" and another calming thought. The next day, I bring it to the service centre and fixed it, even I lost all my data and getting back to a new phone.

I found that give yourself a positive and calming suggestion to your self is the best answer.
"You can not control what happen to your life"
"You will be okay"
"This is going to be over"
"You can pass through this"
"You don't have to think over and over"

It is okay to have sleepless night for a moment, but you have to know the limit.
If you feeling over-limit, try to find the solution.
Have a cup of chamomile tea before sleep, meditation, yoga, listen to music you named it.
And sometimes I am cleaning and organising my stuff at night when I can not sleep, it helps.

The most important is to RELAX before bed.
If you can not sleep, just let your body and mind wonder, they will tired soon.
The more you force your body and mind to sleep, the more they will not sleep.

Do you have the same habit with me? Or do you have any sleep problem?
How do you overcome it?

Related article : http://www.relrules.com/9-tips-that-will-help-you-with-overthinking/

People nowadays are so obsessed with "RELATIONSHIP GOALS"
To be exact, what is relationship goals means? Or do you have any relationship goals? In what terms and what kind of relationship?

For me, relationship goals is nothing than pure, happy, and long-lasting relationship, it's a deep bond between two people or more.
Relationship goals is not for dating or couple only, but also in friendship, family, and even with God.

If you watch #ibuibuhot web series, in the final episode ClaraDevi discuss about the real relationship goals in life, it is friendship, you can watch the video here.
As said by ClaraDevi herself "we can have all the love in the world, but without friendship (even with our lover), we won't feel content 😘"
And I am agree with it, friendship is forever relationship as long as you together. Bonding with each other, know each other, angry and mad at each other and getting back again. To be a shoulder for each other. A place to lean on.
Myself have been on and off in friendship, but the one who remains now, I hope it will be forever. Forgive me if I act as a bad friend *kiss*

The next level is dating or couple?
The current hot topic these days is relationship goals among teens, which more like affection and travel aboard.
Kissing, hugs, and even sex is not a relationship goals, dear boys and girls. NOT. A couple relationship is way moreeee than that, understanding, loving, caring, discussion, problems, are the things you need to learn from each other.
Going travel aboard is not a relationship goals. You can do that with your own or your friends.
Kissing, hugs, travels is activity you both enjoy together but it is not a relationship goals.
What is the point of share your affection all over your social media and ended with break up? It will be tiring to delete all the photos....

I'm not gonna talk about family or God relationship goals, since it's not my concern of writing this time. And it's very personal ofc.
The point is : relationship goals is about the quality of the relationship itself, instead of showing off.

Any comment?

Hai!

Saya memutuskan pakai Bahasa saja di tulisan kali ini, karena lagi mau curhat banget..



Di tengah-tengah kerja ini tiba-tiba saya merasa God is Good banget untuk keuangan saya bulan ini.
Parah banget deh saya ini masalah keuangan akhir2 ini. Sejak punya credit card, saya suka gesek kalo sudah di awal masa tagihan, mikirnya "kan tagihannya masih awal bulan depan", hal ini bikin keuangan saya kacau abis gajian.

Bulan ini saya harusnya mulai nabung untuk Singapore Trip saya bulan Desember nanti. Tiket dan hotel sih udah beres, untungnya ada rejeki juga jadi bisa berangkat. Yang ini perlu nabung untuk belanja disana haha. Nabung sih, dikit, lumayan lah ya, tapi imbasnya uang jajan berkurang, trus ada 2 orang temen yang ulang tahun *nah loh*, saya sampai pusing beliin kado pake duit siapa? Kalo pinjem temen dulu aduh pusing nanti banyak utang numpuk.

Disinilah Tuhan bekerja.
Temen saya minta didesainin logo, saya sih memang ga matok tarif kalo ada yang mintain tolong gini, nah kok dia baik banget kasi duit "uang capek" katanya. Lumayan bisa bantu saya di keuangan bulan ini. Pikir saya lumayan buat bayar urunan beli kado.
Lalu kemarin temen saya ada yang tunangan, kebetulan dapat tugas negara seserahan baki. Eh, pas pulang dapat amplop! *duh norak* tapi saya cukup lega, ah ada rejeki lagi. Cuma yang ini amplopnya ga saya buka, saya simpen aja. Bakal lain cerita kalo uangnya saya buka, alamat masuk dompet lalu dibuat jajan haha.

Tuhan lagi ngerti banget yang saya perlu, Dia kasi berkat dimana saya ga ngira berkat itu ada.
Kalo niat baik, ada aja ya balasannya.
Semoga dengan ini kita semakin tulus berbuat baik, bukan karena ada balasannya.
Tapi Tuhan pasti punya cara untuk kasi balasan, dengan berkat macam apapun.

Have a good Monday!

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